Tuesday 5 June 2018

Gender fluidity / binary

People are always scared of change that's why there is ridicule and angst against the whole idea of gender fluidity. An anti PC backlash as venomous as any veganazi. Referring to a group in a genderless way feels like the majority's "normal" gender status is being taken awake for the sake of the feelings of a few, but it isn't. We're all used to being called them or they in plural or when someone doesn't know our name and if an individual wants to be called these things it's their right and doesn't affect anyone else. We need to stop being so weak and defensive thinking our rights are infringed everytime someone merely speaks up for their own. I was born a man and identify as one but I get it and don't care if a gender spectrum is "real" or not. That it's physiological, psychological or "fake" doesn't matter a jot because it's not my business what others decide. It requires little effort to change how I describe them (yay I remembered). To go on and on that it is all made up and not real is just making excuses for yourself and pretending it isn't actually you projecting and forcing your feelings on to others rather than vice versa. Just be happy with who you are and allow others to do likewise and above all grow a fucking backbone you snowflakes and stop seeing threats where there aren't any. It's good to be a man or a woman and always will be, celebrate it. But if you want a bit of both or neither go for it. It can only make life richer and more interesting.